Wednesday, June 5, 2024

DISABLED VETERANS DESERVE A QUALITY OF LIFE, TOO

Copyright 2024 by Lori-Ann Willey

I feel so fortunate that these breathtaking photos capture the serene beauty that reflects the solitude that our private camp offers.  Both directions of view remind me of how incredibly fortunate we are to live in such a place as this. The American flag reminds us of the simple joys of freedom and the peace that nature brings to our hearts.


This quiet lake, with the distant mountain that stands majestically in the background, has lived in this landscape before man existed -how do I envy its place in history, its creation…the fact that it was here first. The solar panels, though hidden more each year is as if the land wishes to hide the intrusion of man.  They lay still and silent, symbolizing our harmonious relationship with the environment, embracing sustainable living while cherishing the near-untouched wilderness that surrounds us. The stillness of the water, broken only by an occasional ripple, invites us to pause and appreciate the solitude…to reconnect with ourselves and the natural world.  “To be one with nature” is not an understatement for those who are here for other reasons than exploitation for personal and monetary gain.  True nature enthusiasts do not entertain such invasive thoughts.

Living in this remarkable place has been a true miracle, especially as we work to improve the quality of life for someone with limited physical abilities who is facing medical issues as a Disabled American Veteran who's “done his time” and is mostly wheelchair-bound. The accessibility and peace of our surroundings provide an exclusive form of therapy, offering physical relief and emotional and mental compensation -nature’s exchange if you will. The relaxed environment helps ease the stresses and strains of medical challenges, creating a sanctuary where healing and well-being are nurtured by nature's peaceful and gentle hug.

These daily views evoke a deep emotional attachment to seclusion and nature. They remind me of the importance of preserving, to a certain extent, these untouched landscapes, where we can find peace, solace, and a sense of belonging away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Away from places and people who seek exploitation and monetary value for oneself over the value of nature and those who live within it -those who live in the woods for a different reason, and with a separate set of values. 

Here, a place where time seems to stand still, and the only sounds are the whispers of the wind and the gentle slap of water against the shoreline, against an exposed rock, and an over hanging twig, shrub, etc. This is our retreat, a place to escape, reflect, and rejuvenate in the embrace of nature's quiet beauty. We are truly fortunate to call this place home. Here is where we can find strength, comfort, and inspiration amidst the challenges we face.

I openly share our daily lifestyle despite the daily obstacles we face.  Although I am my husband’s caregiver, my posts are not doom and gloom as they could be had I a different mindset than I do.  Instead, I wish to show that despite the obstacles we are faced with each day, I choose to show that we are living examples of a positive mindset, and “Where there is a Will(ey), there is a way.” 

Sincerely, 
The Wife & Caregiver of a Disabled Veteran